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Positive self-talk KEY to self-transformation!
How by changing our words, we change our mindset, perspective & reality

Positive self-talk KEY to self-transformation!
Hello go-getter! Hope you are having an amazing week. Let’s take a moment to welcome our newest members. 👏
TODAY’s TOPIC
Why positive self-talk matters?
How to shift our mindset, perspective and reality with positive language?
Where to start?
WHY
Influences our & others perception & behaviours.
Rewires thinking patterns.
Boosts confidence & self-esteem.
(Tip: Words are powerful - they can cage us or set us free. Choose yours wisely & watch the magic unfold.)
HOW
Language is powerful. It's the vehicle that carries our thoughts, ideas, and beliefs. And just like any vehicle, it requires careful handling to reach its destination effectively.
Here are some strategies to transform negative narratives into empowering messages:
1. Word Switches:
↳ Replace negative phrases with positive alternatives. For instance:
Instead of saying “I can’t do it,” try “I will give it my best shot.”
Rather than thinking “I’m not good enough,” reframe it as “I am constantly improving and growing.”
↳ These shifts create a sense of empowerment and encourage action.
2. Focus on Strengths:
↳ Acknowledge your potential and growth. Embrace a growth mindset by emphasizing progress.
↳ For example, instead of dwelling on limitations, think about how you’re constantly evolving.
3. Positive Communication:
↳ Use uplifting language in relationships. Instead of criticizing, express belief in someone’s ability to learn and improve.
↳ Encourage and appreciate others—it fosters an uplifting environment.
4. Mindfulness and Self-Awareness:
↳ Catch negative thought patterns. Consciously choose positive alternatives.
↳ Techniques like visualization, affirmations, and gratitude can shift your mindset toward positivity.
Remember, the power of words shapes our perceptions and actions.
WHERE TO START
We are often unaware of the impact of our words. They can either empower us, or they can limit our potential. Let's start by focusing on some common phrases that we all use, but they hamper our progress & self-belief unknowingly.
1. “I am just a xxx.” – Say “I am a xxx.”
2. "I am not good enough" - Revamp it to "I am a work in progress."
3. “I should just be grateful” – Switch to “I am grateful.”
4. "I can't do it." - Start saying "I will find a way."
5. "I have to do this." - Switch to "I choose to do this."
It's all about swapping negative, disempowering language with positive, empowering alternatives. Simply by changing our words, we change our mindset, our perspective, and in turn, our reality.
Let me know how this goes for you!
Until next week,
Jaspreet
P.S. If you are interested to understand how 1 on 1 coaching might help you accelerate your career while maintaining and improving your wellbeing & relationships, send me a note and I will be happy to do a free 15 min discovery call with you.